My husband wants me have sex with another man, why?

My husband wants to watch me have sex with another man, is this normal?

My husband wants me have sex with another man, why?

A beautiful girl has just sent me a question: I don't understand this behavior and although the thought of him watching me does turn me on, I just don't understand. Could you help please? He fantasizes about me with previous lovers and asks for explicit detail about previous sexual experiences. I'm ok with the idea in theory, I'm just worried about this hurting him and our relationship. He also enjoys me telling him made up stories of infidelity in detail.

I read this commet but I think it is to stupid: 

Is it normal you ask? No, I don't thinks so, but at the same time, not exactly abnormal! Is it normal that a woman should get 'turned on' at the thought of her boyfriend or husband watching whilst she has sex with another man? You openly admit that that 'turns you on!!' Ask yourself why! Seems he, your boyfriend, is two steps ahead of you. He has taken it all a little further and developed his fantasy a little more than you have. It's a kind of mental voyeurism in a way. Personally I don't think that that kind of thing is healthy in a relationship. 

If he is having to use that kind of mental stimulation in order to have a fulfilling sexual experience/ relationship with you, then somewhere, something is lacking. Don't you feel inferior or lacking in anyway. This is his problem not yours. He is attempting to open your mind to something other. Move you into his fantasy sexual world. Some women / couples find that kind of interplay exciting and stimulating. Does it please you, is it OK? Can you maintain it, is it long term, can you relationship last based upon such?

Look at 'swingers'. A couple go to a party, part for a while, have sex with others then go home happily together and wait for the next party. Is that true love? Does it matter? They are both fulfilled.... or do they just kid themselves that they are... who knows!?

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If you are happy with his 'game' then carry on, join in and contribute. If you, as you are, questioning it, or concerned about it then get out!! I think he, your boyfriend, is lacking in confidence about his abilities. He is trying to match his performance against others. The 'made up stories' he wants to hear are all about is a way for him to learn about what you want and what your fantasies are. Once he hears those, then he can try to fulfil them for you.... Maybe!!! He may have a hidden agenda. He may be priming you for the real thing, sex with his mate whilst he looks on! Tread carefully!

You said "in theory" you were ok with the idea. It will not stop there, if you do this, he will push and ask for more and more and there is no good end to it. Please, find the strength to leave.

Other man said: Hello there, this kind of fantasy is called "cuckolding". Not a well known fetish but is harmless. He may not ACTUALLY want you to be with someone else, as that may make him jealous he simply may LOVE the idea of it. I'd try "pretending" first - say you hooked up with a man at the gym and then in a couple of months see how it would pan out! If he has brought it up, trust me, you will not hurt his feelings, but my advice would be to "play make believe" first. He might just like that better. Men have a lot of fetishes, cuckolding is one, school girls is another. And many women also have some fetishes! Good luck - and enjoy!

I think this husband or boyfriend really wants his lover feeling the happy in sex, especially when she is there to experiment with a strange man in bed. So, let do it if you like